I hope this can help some of you that are struggling as well!
Through all of the rough times I have been having lately, sometimes I forget just how strong I am and need to remind myself every once in a while. And sometimes it really isn't an easy thing, but I have found something that helps me remind myself! I got an affirmation pendant. I am sure many of you have seen them before. It is a round donut about the size of a quarter and a word is stamped onto. They have hundreds of different words to choose from. You can get them at a lot of places online and I have seen them at a lot of little gift stores where they are generally about $3 each. I bought myself one that says strength and put it on a necklace that I wear all the time. If I am ever struggling I always touch my pendant to remind that I do have the strength and I can overcome. Now it is almost an involuntary thing for me. I will all of a sudden realize that I am holding onto it during a hard time without even thinking about it.
It really is amazing how just a little reminder like this can turn things around!
~And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out into the world it is best to hold hands and stick together~ Robert Fulgum
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